Soup has always been my true food love. It is the ultimate comfort food, and Sunday the perfect day to slow down and enjoy its simple satisfaction. It soothes the soul, nourishes when we are unwell, and, in my family, unites friends on Sundays.

On cool days I love to make chowders and fish stews. And, when it comes to seafood, I always engage my husband to help with the selection. Having grown up sailing the Gulf Coast and exploring all of its nooks and crannies, he is well versed in the subject and is especially knowledgeable about oysters. As a young child, his father would give oysters to clients every year for Christmas. He and his younger sister would happily accompany their dad to collect these delicacies, eating as many raw oysters as the amused boat crew would shuck for the little ones.

My favorite oyster stew is an adaption from two of my favorite men—my father-in-law David Whitaker and American restaurant critic, food journalist, cookbook author, and long-time food editor for the New York Times, Craig Claiborne.


Now that I am back in my home state of Texas, I lean towards light broths or chilled soups as cool days here are few and far between. However, the first nip in the air pulls me outside and in search of a hearty soup recipe. Entertaining al fresco in this part of the world is a rare treat, and therefore most often spontaneous. When the opportunity does come along, I remind myself that an enjoyable outdoor dinner party doesn’t demand great planning or anything elaborate―just simple food, good company, and a welcoming location.

THE LOOK: For this dinner I pulled out a round, folding table and covered it with a large quilt. For a more relaxed, natural look I didn’t use matching furniture or a patio set. Rather, I used a combination of textures including wicker, stone, brass and glass. Inexpensive Chinese lanterns not only pair with my beloved blue glasses and blue and white porcelain, they add a fun festive touch and a pop of color.

TIP: As soon as hydrangeas are cut the stems should immediately be put into tepid water. Use a sharp knife or clippers to cut each stem on a diagonal and submerge. Cut hydrangeas in the morning and choose only the most mature blooms.

THE OUTDOOR BAR: Whether you have a small postage-sized patio or rolling lawn, setting up a stylish outdoor bar is easier than you think. Pick a spot that is covered by a big tree or a corner under an awning or trellis. Be sure to have plenty of glasses on hand (stock up from bargains from stores). Mix and match for an eclectic look, and keep a few snacks and little bites on hand. Other bar essentials include: an ice bucket, tongs, cocktail shaker, napkins, bottle openers, and bar towels.



Oyster Stew

  • Author: Ronda Carman
  • Prep Time: 10
  • Cook Time: 8
  • Total Time: 18 minutes
  • Yield: 6 1x


My go-to oyster stew is an adaption from two of my favorite men—my father-in-law, David Whitaker, and American restaurant critic, food journalist, cookbook author, and long-time food editor for the New York Times Craig Claiborne. Serve with classic oyster crackers as an accompaniment. This recipe is featured in my book Entertaining at Home.




4 tablespoons unsalted butter
1/2 cup yellow onion, finely chopped
1/2 cup celery, finely chopped
3 tablespoons shallots, minced
1/2 cup dry sherry
3 cups whole milk
1 cup half-and-half
2 teaspoons Worcestershire sauce
1/2 teaspoon Tabasco sauce
1/4 teaspoon paprika
Salt and freshly ground black or white pepper to taste
1 pint shucked oysters, in their natural liquor
1/4 cup finely flat-leaf parsley, chopped


In a stockpot, melt the butter over medium-high heat. Add the onion, celery, and shallots. Cook until soft, 3 minutes.

Add sherry and bring to a low simmer. Gently stir in milk, half-and-half, Worcestershire sauce, Tabasco sauce, paprika, salt, and pepper. Bring to a low simmer.

Add the oysters with their liquor and simmer until oysters start to curl, about 3 minutes. Do not overcook or the oysters will become tough. To serve, ladle the stew into heated soup bowls. Sprinkle with parsley, and serve with oyster crackers.


An Oyster Primer
Oysters are a lot like wine and reflect the flavor of their surroundings. When choosing oysters, rely on four of your senses.

Smell: Fresh oysters should smell crisp and briny, much like seawater. They should not smell fishy. Pre-shucked oysters should have no ammonia smell.

Sight: Look to see that the oysters are being kept on ice in a well-drained refrigerated case and that the shells are shut tight. You want a flat top and a deep cup (the bottom half). The deeper the cup, the more room for meat and brine.

Touch: Oyster shells are rough to the touch and may have barnacles. Toss oysters with excessive algae, seaweed, discoloration, or moss. These are signs of poor tank storage and water circulation.

Taste: Ask to taste the oysters, if possible. As a general rule, the Atlantic produces oysters with a sharp brininess and an intense hit of the fresh, cold sea. Pacific oysters are rarely salty and often taste complex and sweet. The combination of fresh water and salt water from the Gulf of Mexico contributes to the unique taste of a Gulf Coast oyster; as a general rule, they are larger and meatier than those from other coastal areas.

Photo Michael Hunter

  • Category: soup
  • Cuisine: soup

Keywords: oyster stew

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